A- Always listen to your heart!
B- Babies are hard work- it's not a decision to take lightly(becoming a teen parent)
C- Co-operate with health visitors/doctors etc. They will be able to support you. :)
D- Don't listen to the people who judge you, only you know if you're a good parent.
E- Energy is one of the positives of being a teen parent.. Use it to your advantage & keep your child entertained.
F- Friends will come & go, but family will stick by you no matter what.
G- Groups- join as many as you can, it can sometimes be lonely without them & it's a good opportunity for you & baby.
H- Hold your head up high- don't let people put you down.
I- Involve your friends in day to day life- they might not understand what you're going through so may back off a bit.
J- Just be yourself- don't try to be a parent that you're not.
K- Kicking & Screaming- toddlers can be a handful- remember they don't stay babies for long! It's not all about pushing prams & dressing them up.
L- Love them- it's as simple as that.
M- Meet new people- parents are the best people to meet, they know exactly what you might be going through!
N- Negativity- there will be negativity, it's to be expected, just block it out.
O- Opinions- Some people may have bad opinions of you & will tell you to your face, you're a Parent now- be the mature one & walk away.. so what if they don't like you? Just one less horrible person in your life! :)
P- Pace yourself- babies aren't babies for long, don't rush away the early years by keeping busy. Enjoy them.
Q- Question... Never question yourself, if you have made a decision, you've more or likely made the right one.
R- Reality- Look up the Pros & Cons of teen pregnancy before making a decision- reality is, you'd probably change your mind after reading the 'cons'.
S- Support your partner- they might be going through a difficult time.
T- Take time off from being a parent, a bubble bath, a walk down the street- anything is good for some 'me time'.
U- Understand- understand your babies needs.. else things could get messy!
V- Vent when you can, don't hold things in!
W- Walking is good for low parent moods, & good for baby too!
X- Xterminateeeeeee! -You WILL have to put up with annoying programmes! (Doctor Who!!)
Y- Yellow- Sometimes life is perfect, sunny & yellow. But sometimes it isn't.. & it becomes cloudy & grey.. Know how to control negative moods.
Z- Zoo- Make memories with your family, photographs & diaries are a great way of capturing day to day life.. or even trips out!
So there we are, my A-Z of being a teen parent. 26 tips for anyone considering being a teen parent, or for those who already are. :)
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